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Message from: Adele - 16 Dec 03

Subject: i lost my mum and dad

my mum and dad died 3 weeks ago. they were on dere way to da airport, they were going away for their 20th weddin anniversary to spain, i was goin to stay wit a friend. On da way to da airport my dad lost control of the car and it swirved of da road and smashed into a wall. I was in skool when dis happened, and 2 police men came to skool, i was in maths, i remember it as if it was yesterday. My teacher was called out of da room, i remember all of us thought she was in trouble, but nothing prepared for wat was about to happen. I was asked to step outside and i was taken to da headmasters office, there i was told my mum had died of her injuries at da scene and my dad was seriously injured in hospital, i cud not stop cryin, i felt so empty, the police took me to da hospital wit my pastrol care teacher, there i stayed wit my dad and i watched him die 5 hrs after the crash.
Da funeral was horrible dere all by my self wit no mum or dad.

i miss dem so much
(its helped to get it out of my head)
Thanx for readin dis
ADELExx

Reply from: Lianne - 18 Dec 03

Subject: Sorry

Hi Adele, i'm sori 2 hear abt ur mom & dad, it must b realy hard 4 u.If u need ne 1 2 tlk 2 u can tlk 2 me.I dont no wot it is like 2 lose a mom & dad, but i no wot it is like loose a dad.

luv Lianne x

Reply from:Katie

Subject:Lossing mum and dad

Hi Adele
I know what your going thought i lost my dad when i was 7 and my mum about 4 weeks ago. Am only 16 years old now. I lost
My nan at 3 years old from old age
My grandad at 4 years old from old age
My dad at 7 years old from heart attack
My little sister at 8 years old she died 2 hours after beng born
My older brother at 10 years old he was 18 he was knocked down by car
My best mate Anna at 12 years old she cimmeted serside cos life was hard for her she was only 12
My baby when i was 12 i had a misscarage
My best mate Lisa at 13 years old she was 16 and was killed by her boyfriend he was 20
My boyfriend at 14 years old he was 17 he was racing car and a druken man went in to him.
My mum at 16 about 4 weeks ago i lost her from cancer.
So i know what your going thought but life goes on and it does i live in a flat with my new boyfriend and his 2 best mates.
So Adele all i can say is keep your head up high and keep thing about all the good times and think postive. Ok sweetheart good luck.
Love Katie xxxxxxxx

Reply from:nicole

Subject:sorry

im sorry to hear that i lost my uncle a few weeks ago and im still upset but my mates are supporting me as much as they can it must be hard 4 u i really need someone 2 talk 2 who understands plz write back love nicole x

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