link to homepage
4 blue footprints
link to the work continues website link to cruse bereavement care website'

message board

message no. 2079

From: tara

Subject: my bestfriend
hi my name is tara. and about 2 munths ago i lost my best friend we did everything together. it stil hasnt sunk in propa that hes gone and isnt going away i have to do councilling what is helpin me. ive tryed everything but i cant come to terms with his death, i havnt got any1 at home or anything so i use to self harm but that got me no where theres times where i just want to sit down in a corner and die but i know that not help. my friend told me about this place so i hope in a while it might begin to help me.

From RD4U
I am sorry to hear that your best friend died recently. This is very tragic. It takes time to begin to cope. I hope there are various ways we can help. 

It is good that you have posted this message and then other young people will reply. Also we have a Freephone Helpline on 08088081677 which is open from 930am to 5pm Monday to Friday and there is also Childline on 0800 1111 which is open 24 hours a day. Maybe also think about emailing us on the rd4u team through the rd4u website and then we can reply. Also we have bereavement support workers across the country and details of our branches of bereavement support workers are on our website www.cruse.org.uk Hope these ideas are helpful. Best wishes 
Reply from: kimberly
Subject : Sorry :(
hey sweety! well in december,,2008 which wasnt that long ago ,my boyfriend george past! i can relate to your situation.....its hard but im trying and i hope you are too! just try to stay posotive and know that he wouldnt want you to be sad .....i know at times the pain gets the best of me and i bust out crying but do you know wat works for me>? writing.....when your feelin at your worst just grab a pen and paper and write....you dont need to rhyme or even make sence but just write your feelings!   this makes me feel a bit better cause holding it in makes it worse.....well hope i helped and remember stay strong and im deeply sorry for your loss ...take care & god bless!

reply to message | back to message board

home
about RD4U
personal
interact
| message board
| private message
| gallery
| comments
| feedback
fun zone
LADS ONLY
links
contact us
sitemap
home | about RD4U | personal | interact | fun zone | LADS ONLY | links | contact us | sitemap