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Message from: sez - 16 Dec 03

Subject: what a mess

hi my fionces mum died in june from cancer she was diagnosed 3 months earlier. it came as a shock to all of us. my other half is now suffering from deep depression and is doing all sorts of things to avoid dealing with the terrible fact his mum has gone. he is withdrawing mostly from everyone that really wants to help him, and i dont know what to do. can someone please help me i love him so much and this depression will eat him up i know i have had it. thankyou love sez x

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hey sez.i know a bit about depression and i know how it can affect the people around that person coz you feel so helpless.all you can really do (in my opinion)is just let your partner know you are there for him and basically be there,and hope that he will 'use' you.good luck. write back if you feel the need.have a good xmas

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