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Subject : Nan
Its been four years since my nan passed away i try so hard to get on with everyday but everything reminds me of her, i hear people talking about there nan and i find myself having to hold back the tears. I dont talk to people about it as they will probably think im pathetic as it has been 4 years. It hasnt got easier to deal with as people kept telling me it would. I still find it so painful, ive never felt a pain like it. Its like someone has ripped my heart out ive never felt the same since my nan died, i dont feel like i can ever get over it and im not sure how to deal with it. Can you go see someone after its been four years and is it something i need to try and deal with myself. I really feel for you all reading all ur messages brought me to tears because i really do know how you all feel. Death is one of the most horribles things in the world. I lost my grampa, uncle and my nan life just doesnt seem fair.

Subject : nan
my nan died aswell. she died becuase she had cancer and alot of other things but like u lot i whiss i could die to be with her

RD4U team:
I am sorry to hear about your bereavement and how you want to be with your nan. It is very difficult when we have a bereavement but there are many people who want to help. It is good that you have sent a message so that other young people can reply. Also Cruse has a Freephone Helpline 08081671677 which is open from 930am to 5pm Monday to Friday and there is Childline on 0800 1111.