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Message from: Alice

Subject : Its so hard
Its so hard to go on with life knowing my loved ones are n longer there. Im 15, 20 months ago my boyfreind died of accidental self aspixiation, in other words he accidently strangled himself to death. He helped me all through my life with issues over all areas. In 2 days I'll be sitting my GCSE English exam and he's supposed to be sat behind me! God knows how i'll be able to concntrate. I love him so much and i dont know how on earth I'll ever get over his death. How do other people get over this kind of thing? I've created a condolence book with his pictures in it and some poems and stuff and i write to him through that i also carry a little gold cross he gave me one birthday. We were together four years i just dont know how to cope without him!

Reply from: Vikki
Subject : Be Strong
I know it's hard to cope after losing someone so close. I lost cousin, she was also my best friend. It was also sudden and shouldn't have happened. It is especially hard around exam times, I'm struggling to revise because its hard to concentrate - as i'm sure everyone else in a similar situation is. Just do your best - and don't feel too bad about it. Just think when you get your results - about how well you have done considering the pain you are going through. Things will get easier - but take as much time as you need. Keep Smiling :)

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