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Message from: Thue

Subject : Brother loss
It has been 3 mths since my brother passed. I lost him to the liver cancer when he was 47. It's still hurt everytime i think of him and that happens everyday. I can't say we got along well when he was still living and well. Still I can't explain why the void in my heart is so much that all my body aches more often now. I can't stand the thought of not seeing him grow old but it's happening. He's gone and the last image of him still makes me cry so hard. We shared the same bd, which makes it harder for me every year dealing with the loss. I joked about not feeling special on my bd. I guess now I understand perfectly the saying " be careful what you wish for". If God can hear me, I wish to know if he's OK whereever he is right now. Please give me a sign, something about him that I can recognize that he's no longer in pain, he'd be fine and still be with us even in different form/shape.

Reply from: Addy
Subject : My Brother
I know just how you feel, my brother died just over a year ago. We lost him to meningitis when he was 18. It still hurts. Just know you're not alone
Reply from: Sophie
Subject: Brothers
Hi,
i had a brother die 4 months ago now. He was my older brother too, it still feels like it was yesterday sometimes but i always feel he's protecting me, I bet chris is watching you right now. He will always be with you, and you will never forgot him. He will always be in your heart and even if your having fun it dosent mean your forgetting him. He would want you to have fun and live life to the full.

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