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Message from: Bex

Subject : Does it matter how?
Since my bf died in january after taking heroin i have had loadS of weird reactions from People. Some 'mates' wont even talk to me, they told me talk to the other drugies. Chris was not that kind of person. Im not. He was pressuried into doingit. he shouldnt have and has paid the price. I am also paying the price and yep i am angry at him but why does it make me a social reject. I cant tell if its cos of the heroin. do people normally say weird stuff to you or ignore you when someone
Close to you has
Died?

Reply from: Vikki
Subject : simply yes
They do, not all of them, but I would say most, more often than not because they don't know what to say, they know you are going through a tough time and don't want to say the wrong thing! To me that seems crazy - I would rather they tried their best even if they said the wrong thing because feeling isolated makes you feel even worse! Don't take it personally though, just try not to let it get to you!! hugs xxx

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