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Message from: rachel

Subject : my lifes a disaster
it startd when i was 10(im now 13) and my gran who had been ill for ages died on march 20th 2005 and then on the 24th march 2005 my other gran died. they both were in hospital at the same time and died really close together. at the time i was upset but not that bad i dont think i quite realied that it was true. now (3 years later) on the 10th december 2007 (6 days after my birthday) my uncle died. this has made me really upset and i dont know what to do. everyone i know seems to die within the last 3 years (including one of my best m8s). i feel like i have no one i can talk to and im really upset and dont know how to deal with it.
please help

Reply from: Sharon
Subject: Hi Rachel
sumtimes it does seem like everything is going wrong... I know when my granny n grandad died I was so friad but but no now it is ok
Reply from: no name
hi
Sharon said that everything gets ok when someone dies but it doesn't. you cant bring dead people back, and if you say that its ok then your not being ture to yourself. people who i speak to that haven't had anyone die thats close to them, say stuff like that. it never stops hurting and you always miss them but i guess that you get use to it.

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