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message no. 1842
| Message from: Gabi |
| Subject : Dads
Is it just me, or does anyone elce get jealous. Recently with fathers day coming up, my friends have been talking about what they are getting there dads. I can't do that anymore and it really gets to me. Even on tv the relationships between father and daughter pain me. Loosing my daddy was the worst thing that has ever happened to me, and when people try to understand it's even worce because they just don't. You can't. Only if you have lost a piece of you. Please can someone relate.
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| Reply from: Carl |
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Hey it was funny Ive had a really bad day today i lost my dad two months tomoz (26th March). Reading your message kind of summed up the day. It is hard for people to understand. Especially when you are used to doing things like Fathers day. It becomes a routine which is lost.
But people find it hard to know what to say. Thats what I'm finding out. It doesn't help, but I hope that you can find someone that at least will just listen to you. When people start talking about Fathers day just take three deep breathes and know that hes whatching over you. It's whats keeping me going
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| Reply from: Becci |
Subject: Fathers day
I am only 21 and my boyfriend passed away in jan. We have two kids. One is four and has been worried about fathers day so we have decided to get him a card anyway and send it up on a helium balloon. I did it on valentines day cos i couldnt let the day go unmarked |
| Reply from: thomas |
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i know how you feel. Every time my freinds talk about what ther dad showed the i fell a pian of loss.
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| Reply from: Charlotte |
Subject : Fathers day
I know how you feel. Every keeps talking about their dad. I am dreading fathers day. My daddy died on 1st of 08. I don't know how I am going to cope on fathers day.
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| Reply from: Gabi |
Subject : Fathers Day
I have recently done something that has really helped me. I got a shoe box, and put all the little things that reminded me of my dad. Photos, toothpicks(we used to build stuff out of them when i was young) and maybe on fathers day you can just spend some time with your family just remembering the good times. hope this helps. Btw thanks for every ones thoughts. you have made me feel so much less alone
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