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message no. 1818
| Message from: Katie |
| Subject : My Mummy :)
January this year my mum died, to me this was like my whole life becoming unliveable. she was not oly my mum but my best friend and she really supported me. we were joined at the hip. never apart. she was the only person i told absoloutly everything to. My dad has recently tried talking to me about things, and really tried to get involved with my life. but i just dont want to tell him anything because he has aways been at work when me and my mum were together.i have therefore been keeping my emotions inside and often have the odd outburst of tears. am i the only one in this situation or is there someone i can talk to ws in the same situation xxx
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| Reply from: SP |
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My mum died last January and I know how you're feeling cause we were joined at the hip too - never apart! I saw her every day even though I had moved into my own place.
Don't turn your back on your dad - he's missing someone just as important as your mum was to you!
Your dad's most likely been at work to earn money to support his family - I'm sure he would much rather have spent the time at home with you and your mum!
Talk to him about your problems and ask him how he's feeling. And then share memories of your mum together - get the old photographs out. Talk about family holidays and find out about your mum before you were born!
Your dad (and any brothers/sisters you have) will know just how you're feeling cause they'll be feeling it too.
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