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Message from: J

Subject : Mothers day without mum
This is going to be my first mothers day without mum and I am dreading the day. I understand this is going to be hard for so many people out there too, and just wanted to share my feelings.

I feel as if I have taken my mum for granted for so many years and now that she is gone I cant truly tell her how much she meant to me and show appreciation for her on a day like this.

I just hope she knew how much I loved her. Mum, youre one in a million.x

Reply from: ellie
Subject : mothers day and mums birthday
I know how you feel.  This will be my first Mothers day without my Mum, and also it will be her birthday on Monday.  I don't know what to do, I want to make it special for her, but I'm worried I'm going to mess that up aswell. 
I never told her enough how much I love her, and I always thought that we would have so much time to sort out some of the things that had gone wrong when I was growing up.  I never imagined that I wouldn't get the chance.
I miss her so much all the time and love her so much, I just hope she knew. xxx
Reply from: J
Subject : mothers day and mums birthday
God it must have been hard to have both days so close to one another. Mothers day alone was really hard for me, so I cant imagine what it was like for you. I spent it with my younger sister at home and we both agreed that it was more obvious this year and every where you turned people were buying flowers and presents for their mums and it really got me down.

Everyone at uni were all talking about what they were all doing for mothers day and I just felt uncomfortable and didnt really want to know. It was hard not to be jealous, but its something I need to accept;just because my mothers dead, doesn't mean everyone else can't talk about their mothers.
Reply from: Gabi
Subject: mothers day
I so know what you mean. People don't realise how much it hurts when they are showing how they are going to show how much they love their mum, when most of the time they take their parents for granted. You don't realise how much you miss someone till they are gone

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