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Message from: Hanhan

Subject : i miss my gorgeous boyfriend
everyday gets harder, i graduated last night and he should have been there. he helped me so much, i'm lost without him.

Reply from: someone who's been there
Subject : your boyfriend
Hi,
I feel your pain and unfortunately there is nothing I can say that will ease it at the moment, but I promise you that time really does heal, and you will learn to be happy again even though it doesn't feel like it now. Realistically it will be years rather than months I'm afraid until you really start to feel like you're healing, but in the meantime do let yourself grieve for your boyfriend, be kind to yourself and keep some sort of structure in your life. Make sure you talk to people about how you're feeling and don't bottle it up - counselling is often very helpful. When you love someone so much and they are such an important part of your life then of course it hurts so so much when they leave you and I can only say just keep going through the pain and one day you will see the light at the end of the tunnel :) There are lots of other people on here who have been through the same thing and you can always find support on here whenever you need it.
Lots of love and hugs x x x
Reply from: liss
Subject : me to
i miss mine two hun. it should be his birthday on saturday.if you ever wanna chat just reply. to this. it might help both of us to chat to some on who has been through similar.xx

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