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message no. 1751
| Message from: kylie |
| Subject : i lost mym mum
i lost my mum in oct 07 and i am fnding it so very hard thinking bout suiside all the time. my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks before she died so now i feel i've lost the two most important people. thing is i haven't had a chance to get over him we are still friends and i still want him back. my mum was the person i went to wen i was upset but now i have no one to go to. when get upset bout my boyfriend i feel so so guilty bout getting upset over a boy when i should be griveing for my mum. i feel i am getting depression and have been to the doctors but have not told him bout me feeling suidsidal and also ive been cutting my arm, im just going round in circles.
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| Reply from: georgina |
Subject: mum
i would like to make you feel better i have lost my mu to and i no how much it hearts so dont worried your not the only one i want to be your friend
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| Reply from: Jennifer.C |
Subject : your note
Please go back to the doctor, tell him how you feel and what you've been doing, this is so very important. You are harming yourself because of your grief, and the pain you feel inside. One thing I will say, as a mother, aunt and gran - is quite simply, do not hurt yourself any more. You don't give your age, but if you're still at school, is there a nurse? She will help you - maybe even be able to go to the doctors with you if you don't feel comfortable with anyone else. I can't stress how important it is that you get help quickly. I can only add that with time pain does ease off and the pain is the loss of your mum, not the loss of your boyfriend - you think it's him, because he's still around and he probably made you feel 'safe', get him back and the pain will go.It doesn't work like that, you need professional help - please go back to the doctor and tell him everything, he can't do his job properly unles you are 100% honest with him. Good luck.
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