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message no. 1750
| Message from: Colette |
| Subject : My childrens Dad, my soulmate
On Saturday 12th January 08 my soulmate left for work and 5 mini after saying goodbye to our children he had a car crash and died.My hole worlds fallen apart and feel empty.I meet him when I was 13 and havent spent much time apart since u dont get one without the other.He is my soulmate and will be forever.I just wish I could wake up from this nightmare,cant believe I m never gonna see him again.I know my lifes never gonna be the same again I love him so much and will never love anyone like this again.I miss him so much
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| Reply from: Tam |
Subject : Hang in there
Hi Colette, your message broke my heart. I am here to let you know that eventually the fog lifts and the pain eases just enough to catch your breath. Not tomorrow, not next month, not next year, but one day you will see that life continues with or without us and those who depart, never really die. carry him in your heart and don't let go of all the memories you shared. Get a journal and write in as many things as you can remember. As time goes on, you unwillingly forget some of the little beautiful details. Writing them down will be a permanent testimony of the bond that you shared. I am so sorry, hang in there. x |
| Reply from: liss |
Subject : im so sorry for your loss
hello i too have recently lost my soul mate in a car crash its not quite as hard for me because we didnt have any childern (although looking back i wish we did). i have found it hard to take in what has happend because the whole thing happend so quickly i kissed him good bye and ran off to find my shoes for work as id over sleeped the next thing i knew i was being told he had died. but one peice of advice some one gave me not long after it happend was feel the emotions you have and dont try and hold them back. have you seen any councelers? im still on a waiting list but aparently they are brilliant. try and be strong and keep your chin up. i know thats what every one says but its true. i hope you finde time as good of a healer as i have. things are still very fresh in my mind but i find every day gets easyer. i do have my little set backs but things will get easyer
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