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message no. 1736
| Message from: Isla |
| Subject : My dad
my dad died on 26th september 07 after a long battle with a brain tumour that couldnt be operated on. I was always thinking that everything would be okaii, he'd be home with us soon, but obviously that wasnt ment to happen, it feels so weird coz i know hes dead, but i dont feel any diffrent it dosent even feel like hes gone. I just want to see him coz i miss him so much and i cant sleep at night, i have nightmares, and i worry all the time, i cant concentrate at school, and im failing realy badly in my classes and i dont know what to do. please if any1 reads this give me some advice please !!
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| Reply from: bethan |
Subject: replying to your message
hi my dad died on the 28th of novemeba 07 afta having a brain tumour. two weeks afta we found out my dad was died i no the feelin and its so hard i have a 15 year old brother hu thought of my dad as his hero, and hes devistated, i have a 6 yr old sister hu thinks her mums going to die to and me well ive thrown myself into my new job.
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| Reply from: rach |
Subject : hi
i lost my dad nearly 3 years ago and all of my friends all think that im "over it". i cry, but not infront of them because they just get all angery with me because im brining back the past.
my dad died from kidney cancer nearly 3 years ago. his tumor could have been got rid of if the doctors had of stopped it soon. he had short-term cancer so he was only ill knowing that he had uncureable cancer for about 2 months. he was very brave and i always miss him. and dont worry about failing. ask your teachers at school for some extra help. and remember you've just lost a massaive part of your life, and its gonna take loads of time to get used to it.
i think what i mean to say it that its soooo normal to miss someone who's died even if they died a week ago or 60years ago. people take different amounts of time to get over things like this so take your time and dont rush your greif. i miss my dad loads and sometimes just want to say to him that i love him and i want him to come home again.
and as for feeling that no-thing has changed, thats normal to coz u'll still be in shock.
sry for going on and hope that this has helped
rach x |
| Reply from: jordan |
Subject: i'm sorry
i'm so sorry about your loss.about
1 month ago my anit died,the best
thing to do is tell someone about
how you feel.best wishes,jordanxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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| Reply from: stephanie |
Subject : my dad died aswel
my dad died 13th november 2006 and it was a really big los for me so i know how you feel ok (i hope things get better for you in life and for you and me things cant get any worse) but ou know what they say, once your down theres only one way to go and thats back up again!!!
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