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message no. 1735
| Message from: lottie16 |
| Subject : dying of cancer
my great grampy is dying of cancer in the lungs, liver and bones and i don't want to face life without him so i am self harming to try and kill myself
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| Reply from: rach |
Subject : hi lottie
my dad died of kidney cancer, and it spread to his lungs and it went to his liver too. my dads been gone almost 3yrs. when he 1st died i thought that i couldn't carry on but i did and im here today. im glad i did carry on but you've got to remember that self harming isn't good for you or any other people who know you. i would say you've got to be strong but sometimes when your living with someone in that situation its flippin hard.
my dad was only 41 and only knew for 2ish months that he had uncureable cancer. no-one can do anything to make it better, but trying to kill yourself wont make it any better.
sry for going on
rach x |
| Reply from: zara |
Subject : grandad
i know life is cruel when someone you love is going to die or has died. i know cos i saw my grandad run over and he died of alot of injuries 6 months ago and i cant get over that he has gone i saw him every day, i wanted to end my life and be with him. but i know my grandad whould be mad with me to do something stupid,you need to be there for your family and be strong cos one day when it is your time to pass u will meet again and hope hes waiting for you,i dont think he would like it if u wanted to harm yourself.
See Zara's poem for her grandad |
| Reply from: jenny |
Subject : mum dying
my mum has stage iv cancer and i don't know how to cope i cry all the time cause i cannot think of how to cope without her. she is at home but is getting weaker & weaker i know its selfish but how do i cope we are so close and i cannot imagine her not being here. i have not even lost my grandparents yet i want my mum around for a lot longer |
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