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message no. 1732
| Message from: sabrina |
| Subject :plez help x x x
my mummy
my mum past away on the 16.o7.o7 after a long fight of lukimia/cancer.
i was with her when she fell asleep it was horrible. it still dident sink in so i went and seen her in her coffin it was horrable it dident look like her and now that image is stuck in my head and i cant talk to people bout things cuz i just cry.
i dont know what to do anymore.
i just dont want to be alive any more.
and wished it was me instead of my mum. there must be so many other people in my postion.
so i wana ask how did you all get by maybe some ideas would help me.
thanx x x x x luv sabrina x x x x x
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| Reply from: rach |
Subject: hi sabrina
my dad died 3 yrs ago. and i dont think you EVER get over it. i doesn't easyer you just learn to live with it. i get upset loads and cry and cry and cry. its hard.
i carry one of my dads ties with me and when im feeling upset i look at the tie and keep it close to me. Its what helps me but for you it might be different. i also have a daddy box. this is a box which i put stuff of my dads in. its good to look back and remember its normal to miss someone whos died.
hope that this helped,
rach x
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| Reply from: amy |
Subject : im sorry
i no how you feel 12 weeks ago i lost my step mum in a accident it did not seem rel until i saw her and the crying when you talk about things is not something to hide
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| Reply from: Colette |
Subject : Hope this helps
Hi Im so sorry u lost ur mum two weeks ago I lost my soulmate and i know it hurtu never really get over it.I when to see him and he looked different like ur mum did I try to look it like this the part that u love is always with u cos they love u back and wouldnt leave us their body does look like them because they dont need it anymore so arent there their soul is with the people they love like ur mum loves u shell be with u everyday all the time
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