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Message from: No name

Subject : It doesn't feel real
My dad died a week ago. One week before Christmas.   He died in a fire, and I still havent accepted it.  I just can't.  My dad and I were close, and He was very close to my 6 yr old daughter as well.  It was very unexpected and I don't know how I will ever get over him being gone.

Reply from: Tam
Subject : your dad
I was saddened to hear the tragic passing of your Dad, so suddenly and so close to Christmas. You will never be ready to live without those you love, so I hope you instead find the strength. Remember all the beautiful moments, because they existed and for as long as you remember, he will always be with you and your family. Good luck. x
Reply from: Vikki
Subject : Hugs!!
I'm so sorry to hear that, I'm sure christmas was so hard for you, and I know nothing I say at the moment will help because I have been where you are and it takes time, but you will begin to accept it and you will realise that even though he isn't here physically he is in your heart, and talking about him will definitely help, because we live on in memory - through you, it is very hard for children to understand so just talk to your daughter don't let her feel left out, because she will be experiencing it in a very different way but she will need you to understand that! Keep strong and talk! xxx

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