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Message from: stuart, 10 Sept 07

Subject: mum
found my mum dead at 16 years she was 42

Reply from: Libby
Subject : Your mum
Hey im Libby,
Im so sorry to hear about your mum.
My mum died back in november 07 from terminal cancer she was 47. I loved her with all my heart and still do. If you need anyone to talk to im here. I know im only 13 but, it might help, and when your mum dies you have to grow up faster.

Its okay to talk
xxxx
Reply from: Mala
Subject : mum
Hi i sort of know what you are going through coz my mum died of lung cancer May 2008 and i miss her so much. I am really struggling but it has got a bit better.
Reply from: George

Subject : Mum
I lost my mum on the 30th of January 2008 and it is coming up to the date she died and i get bullyed for it all the time saying how i dont have a mum and i diserve it but some times i snap and try to kill my self like running infront of cars when im out but i think i look like and idiot later. It is not fair and i need somone to talk to. please feel free and im on every 2 nights waiting for replys.

From RD4U
I am very sorry to hear that you have lost your mum just under a year ago. I hope that Cruse can help in many ways. It is good that you have written this message and then other young people can reply and help and support you. We also have a Freephone Helpline on 08088081677 which is open from 930am to 5pm Monday to Friday. Also we have branches of bereavement support workers and details of our branches are on our website. It can be so helpful to have some time with a support worker.Also Childline has a Helpline on 0800 1111 which is open from 930am to 5pm Monday to Friday.

I hope very much that all these ideas will help you at this difficult time. Best wishes

Reply from: Fiona
Subject : Mummy
My Mummy died only yesterday and im only 7 years old.
Reply from: danielle
Subject:
i know how you feel i lost my mum nearly 3 years this may my mum died when i was 11 and im 14 now i miss her so much she was my only family and now she has gone im in a foster family my dad died when i was 2 weeks old so me and mum stuck together but mum was ill with kidney faluer all mum ever wanted to do is just look after me and be my mum but her kidneys left her ill i get bullied at school kids saying haha you dont have a mum but they dont understand us we are the onces that are mature because we are trying to cope we are the brave onces this boy come up 2 me and said haha your mum is dead andd i told him to shut up you did not my mum she died and you better shut up and he left me alone he hasnt said anything elese sometimes i feel like giving my life up and killing my self but im not going to because my mum wants me to live my life that she gave me and everyone is making time to help me and give me councilling so im accepting the help and im trying to move on but it will take time

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