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Message from: Pam, 1 Sept 2007

Subject: I miss my dad too
My dad died of cancer and i saw him take his last breath, wenever sum1 mentions someone dying i always get the image and it makes me cry.

The worst thing bout loosing him is the lonliness. and when ppl think say I'm brave.I'm brave so i must be fine, im brave so i must be over it and can be ignored.

and whose gna walk me down the isle?

xx

Reply from: Sophie
Subject: No subject
Reading this was so wierd for me cos i feel exactly the same way. Just because i appearred 'brave' when my dad died all my friends assumed i was fine. As a result i never talked about it anywhere near as much as i should have, so please make sure you dont make the same mistake. and im so glad im not the only one that wonders who will walk me down the aisle! i hope youre okay xxx
Reply from: no name
Subject: my dad
Hey, i understand wht ur goin through my dad also died suddenly in a car crash 3 years ago and i still havent came to terms wif it all. I get soo jealous of my friends sometimes and i know tht isnt the way to deal wif it but it is sooo hard. My thought are wif you xxx
Reply from: no name
Subject: i miss my dad too
Hi Sophie, i know how you feel, my dad died 3 years ago and i hate it when my friends talk about their dads and are nasty towards them becoz im like well wht wld you do if he wasnt here? but i know i shldnt reli get angry becoz thts just how they are but i feel left out all the time if they talk about theirs dads i tend to go quiet and sort of walk awaii. Do you do the same? Well am always herre if u wnt to tok you too hedi i agree with you as well! Love Stacy xx

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