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Message from: April , 20/08/07

Subject: My best friend died

My best friend died yesterday! Sometimes its ok and sometimes I am overwhelmed. I wish I had picked up the phone Sunday morning, she was calling me from the hospital. I wish I had gone to see her...I wish, I wish, I wish

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My best friend died recently. He had a brain hemmorage; i'm not sure I can carry on without him.

Reply: Alex

Subject: hiya hun

my best friend died in February...it is one of the hardest things to get through...and i am still trying to get councelling from someone i like and i am going to be prescribed anti depressance...

hang in there...you will get through it...it will be hard thinking about you could have seen her just before she died...i was next to my friend with her family and the rest of our close group of friends when she wrote on a piece of paper goodbye as she knew it was time...she closed her eyes and died peacefully...that memory will always stay with me...over her last week she wrote letters to her close friends and family...she has also written letters for us to open on our 18th birthday, wedding, first child and things like that...

keep all the memories you have of her close and never ever forget she will always be there when you need her...all you need to do is sit in a place that was special to both of you, close your eyes andthere she will be...in your head...laughing and joking as you remember her...

I know you can get through this but it will take time...in time you will be able to remember the funny times and special memories without crying and will be able to laugh at all the times you had together

I promise it will get easier
Lots of Love
Xxx Alex xxX

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