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message no. 1594
| Message from: sonia, posted 07/08/07 |
| Subject: m dad he ws so young
my dad died i think on my birthday.... but they cant determine date of death and i am devestated... my dad was 60... and the worst thing is i hadnt seen him for such along time, and i cant get over it,, we had his funeral thursday the 12 july 2007..but worst thing is he could of died on my birthday and that hits me like a tone of bricks.. because i will never know.... he was a very simple man... i have such an anxiety or maybe panic attacks at the moment that i cant explain i know that its hit me that me that i will never see my dad a gain and i cant get over it and really cant believe it ..dont know how i will cope but i need some of your strengths to help me...... thanks for listening sonia.
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| Reply from: Chel |
Subject: 1594
Hey, i know how it feels to lose a dad. My dad took his own life in 2004, i was 14. People always say it'll get better, but trust me.. It gets harder before it gets better, before you learn to cope with it. I got diagnosed with Depression a year ago. On a brighter note, you'll learn to cope with it in your own way hunni, but you need to talk about it, counselling helps. I made that mistake, didn't talk about it for near enough 3 years, that's why i'm depressed. So talk to someone you can trust about it =]. Trust me, it helps.
Chel x |
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