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message no. 1580
| Message from: ellie, posted 07/08/07 |
| Subject: self harm
I hav lost my aunt and I am now self harming, it takes the pain away from losing my aunt but only short term, please help me. I miss her so much and i dunno whta to do.
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| Reply from: Jemimah |
Subject: self harm
it common to turn to self self harm after someone dies that u wer close to. as that what i done when some one who was like a mammy to me died october past. it hurts so much that u take the pain out on ur self. self harm is one way of coping. but please try and find some one u trust like a friend , teacher, rd4u staff. to talk to and they can help u to deal with this . my heart goes out to u as i used to self harm alot but not now as i know i am geting the help i ned by counselling.
u are special and u are worth alot. please get help.
il kep u in my thoughts as u remind me of how i was. |
| Reply from: Chel |
Subject: no subject
To be honest, why do you self harm? Think about it, 10 - 20 years from now, you could have a great job, a family of your own.. But think about it, you self harm, self harming leaves scars, so when your older, those scars will be a constant reminder of what you went through, so when your happy with your job, family etc, those scars will bring you down everytime you see them. Trust me, i know what its like. Make your aunt proud, don't scar your body, get help. =]
Chel x
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| Reply from: ellie |
Subject : fanx
fanx 4 all ur messages...
i hav now stopped. u r both right...
im ashamed of what i did and sometimes i cant help thinking my aunty wud be too..
fanx agen
xx
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