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Message from: Amy - 25 Sep 03

Subject: My Gran

My gran died 5 days after i turned 9, and I still haven't got over it. The only thing that makes me feel better is a doll she left to me. I hold her hand while clutching the only other thing she left to me, and pretend I'm talking to her. It helps, but I've still got a hole inside where she used to be, and nothing's ever going to fill it.

Reply from: citizen x - 30 Sep 03

Subject: Your Gran

Dear Amy,
I'm sorry to hear about your gran, it's never easy losing someone especially if they were close to you. You said that your Gran died 5 days after your 9th birthday, how old are you now? I think that it is a positive thing that you have your doll which reminds you of her because this way you are able to have something to remind you of her and that can stay with you for as long or as little as you like. I also think that it is important that you relise that no-one has to replace your gran and the loss of her is something that you are going to have to try and live with.

Reply from: anthony

Subject: it

it will be ok.

Reply from: olivia
Subject : my gran
hi amy mt gran died 2 weeks after i turned nine
i really miss her
i write letters to her then set the letter on fire
hope my info is helpful
love olivia xx
Reply from: Laura
Subject : ..
I'm 16 and my Gran died about 3 weeks ago now, and I don't know how I am going to cope. The last 3 weeks have been hell. I'm not the same anymore, I barely speak to anyone, I don't go anywhere. I feel guilty having my life and each day I just want to die and be with her. I do not care about leaving anyone behind anymore, she matters more than that. I need to get help. Please help me.
Reply from: Brandon
Subject : im sorry
its ok my gran died aswell and just to make it worst my grandfather died 9 days after her. im haveing a hard time at school just try to look at the possitive side and be happy.

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