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Message from: Sophie, 20 May 07

Subject: I need your help

Hey everyone.
I just wanted to ask you for some advice i guess. My Dad died almost 2 years ago now. He didnt live with me so i cant really talk to my mum or anything about it (please dont suggest this because she just doesnt want to talk about him) but im findin it really hard to cope when he died it was about a month before my GCSE's so i just had to carry on with normal life. Now im starting to realise how much i miss my Dad but it seems like i cant really talk to anyone about it seeing as i was such a long time ago. I just wanted to know if people were still feelin like this after 2 years (to be honest i feel a bit silly!) and if anybody has any advice on how to cope. i just dont know who to turn to. please help. x x

Subject: know how u feel

don't worry, i know exactly how feel! My dad died almost 8 years ago but i didnt really deal with it then cos i had alot of ova stuff happening, i just carried on as normal. But now i have been grievng after 8 years! it is normal to be feelng like this even after 2 years..it is cud that u r not bottlng it up. So dnt worry..ur not alone.