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Message from: abi, 12 Jan 07

Subject: my uncle

I am 14. My uncle has had brain tumour, cancer, kidney frailer and many other different things since he was 18, the doctors have said he wont live many different times, his aim in life was to live till 40, he died this week at a great age of 42. We all knew he was going to die at sometime or another but it hasn’t made it any easier to accept it. He went into a coma and I went and saw him and kiss him n told his I loved him, I really hope he heard me. I am coping ok with it all and am trying to look at what my uncle achieved rather then the fact he died, but I am worried about my family. He was my dad’s brother and my dad isn’t coping very well and keeps crying. My younger brother is quiet depressed and my mum just cries a lot. I have tried being brave and keeping a smile on my face but I don’t know how to help my parents further. Also I am going to go in on of the actual funeral cars with my brother, cousins and nans sister and I am extremely worried. please help abi xxx