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Message from: lindsey x, 3 Jan 07

Subject: my mum

hiya.. im 15 years old and my mum died about one year ago now..was very sudden from a brain hemourage..my life is soo bad now. i just hate it. i feel like i dont want to be around sometimes. i would love to speak to somone my age who is maybe in the same position as its good to speak to somone who knows how i am feeling!...i am so alone sometimes and just want me best firned back who was my mum. linz x

Subject: Mother

Hey, my mother died about 3 months ago of cancer. She was a huge inspiration to me, i loved her loads. However, i just don't know how and when i can start griving. Everybody around me was so close to her and it is impossible to find someone to talk to.

How was it for you? I'd be so thankful to speak to someone on the same wavelength and try and help you in whatever way i can

xx

Subject: my mum died too

Hi Linz,
I'm 14 and my mum died in September. I was only 13 then. She wasn't ill, she had no symptoms bt one night she went to sleep and never woke up. She died so suddenly and I don't really know why. It was something to do with her heart. She died so suddenly and she was my best friend too. I lived with just her and so it's been hard moving back with my dad and my brother and plus im at my senior school now because last yr i was at prep school so its a different school as well. She died the night before I began yr 9 except i was at school because I board. Nobody knew she was dead until the follwing night when she didn't pick me up from school.We did everything together and so it feels so alone right now. I won't go into all the details because there would be so much to say but if you're ever feeling down, like i do constantly, leave me a message. would be nice to talk! I'm so glad I've found someone who feels the same because none of my friends understand. Please write back! Tikki xx p.s. by the way Tikki isnt my real name, Sophie is, it's jst my mum used to call me that, as a nickname! Sophie xx

Subject: (no subject)

so sorry for your lost
its really hard to lose someone as close as a mother, it's probably going to be hard for you for a few years but you will come thru this. try to go out with your friends, do some activities, go out do something because it gets worst when you just lock yourself up and start thinking. life is really unfair sometimes... we never realise how precious life if until we lose someone... then you realise you really have to enjoy every minute of it. im 17 and i lost a really close friend in august and it was pretty hard to handle it. all i can say is stay strong :) xoxoxox