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Message from: charley, 27 Nov 06

Subject: my nan died

my great nan died on the 24 th september 2006, only a few weeks ago, i went to her funeral and i said a poem. it was hard and i miss her so much. im trying to keep happy but whenever i hear her funeral song (wind beneath my wings) playing i get so upset. i need some 1 to talk to. please write back. i need help.

Subject: my nan died not long ago

i know its hard i experienced it not long ago!
its hard to listen to music but sometimes it helps.

Subject: my nan

thats was my nans song at her funeral but i couldnt go as i had to go back to school, she died of cancer, she fought it for 7 years so i am proud of her. i feel the same when i listen to that song but when i feel upset i listen to it as i feel that she hears it and guides me through the sadness. u try it and u may feel her. she will never be forgotten she is always in ur heart.

Subject: i was the same...

When my nanna died i didn't know what to do anymore especially when her funeral song came on (like you).
Over time you will not become as upset but i found that talking is one of the best ways cope (it may not seem like it at first), try it maybe with a family member or try and get a school counsellor/ connexions to talk to you as thats what i did and now i'm glad i did it. Last week my grandfather died and i'm back to where i was then but now i know what i have to do.

Try and think of the good times.
Hope i've been of some help to you and always here to talk, Harmony.

P.s. my email is (SORRY Harmony but for safety & confidentiality reasons we don't post peoples personal e-mail addresses but people can always contact you through the message board Rd4u) if you want to talk or anything.