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Message from: Laura, 29 Oct 06

Subject: I need my mum

Its been 6 years since my mum died of cancer, she died on mothers day, aged 44, 2nd of April 2000, a day i will never forget. And let me just say that, everyday hurts just as much as that day, the pain doesnt get easier, it doesnt get easier to live without her, im 18 now, i was 12 when she died, iv turned out to be such a failure and i know shes not proud of me, thats all i ever wanted from her.

Subject: (no subject)

Hi Laura,
I know its hard but please dont feel so bad about yourself. You dont need to prove yourself to anyone. Think about what your mum would have wanted. Focus on how you can be more positive in life.
Life is what you make it.

Phil

Subject: sorry

Hi i Know what you are going through my mum did of cancer 18 months ago and it has got harder more than anything to cope with, it is hard to lose your mum and not to have them there when you need there help the most, so dont be hard on yourself, you are doing good just getting through such a massive loss!!!!

Subject: (no subject)

Your mum is proud of you, even if its just for carrying on after she left. theres nothing you could do for her not to be proud of you, you know that if she was here she'd understand even if things were going really badly.
Take care and try not to put yourself down xx