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Message from: ellen, 10 Oct 06

Subject: my brother died

Jerry was evrything this last year. I fought his cancer every second with him. Then they said they over radiated his stomach and he was bleeding to death. I still kept fighting for him he was getting weaker. Now I think i didnt do enough, Im just dying inside.

Reply from: Louise

Subject: Your Brother

Ellen,
I just had to reply to your message - please do not give yourself such a hard time, the circumstances seem very difficult and upsetting for you. However there is no way this could be your fault - nor could you do anything to stop this happing.
Do you have other family or friends you can be with?
I lost my brother in different circumstances to yours, but do try and be brave and think about what your brother would want.
All the best - Louise x

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