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Message from: Sez2003

Subject: I'm feeling so low

I feel as if I keep falling down and down and down. I don't seem to be getting over losing one of my dogs and my great aunt. I'm hurting so much and yet its been nearly six months. surely this isnt normal. can anyone help me?
Sez2003

Subject: (no subject)

i am still feeling low at the death of my dad and that has been 2 years. it is normal, and people react with loss in different ways (as everyone tells me). Talk to people dont let your hurt grow until you break down. Kezs xXxXx

Subject: its so hard.

Thanx for your reply, I find it so hard though. Its really hard to cope when I have to take my other dogs to the vets or when i see pictures of my great aunt and dog and it hurts so much. I don't think I'll ever get over it

Subject: dont worry

6 months is hardly any time at all. My dad died in April and everything since then has just been a blur. I havn't even began to get over it so there is no reason you should have. Don't worry it will get easier.

Subject: Kez

I would like to say I agree with Ketz, it is hard but it does help to talk about it. I know 6 months seems a long time when your hurting so much, I find it helps to think of the good times and am thankful that I had those special people in my life at all. Their memory will always be with you and it will get easier - Honest

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I really don't wanna b here anymore

Subject: (no subject)

i have felt like that but focus on things that will happen near in the future that you will enjoy. that is wot i do, even though it is hard, it makes you want to stay hear, to see that event/ to get that something of someone. i am goin away 2morrow, down south to see me dads grave, i am stayin with my step family but it is still goin to be very hard. just focus. Kezs XxXxXx

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My dad died 10 years ago and i still miss him and my best friend died just under a year ago and i dont know what to do with myself sometimes.
I know it's hard but you just have to let your emotions out and try to think of all the good times you had with them. If you talk to somone who has shared the same loss (like a brother of sister of parent or friend) then you can talk it over together. I found talkin bout my dad to my brothers really helped when my dad died.
I hope i may have helped and good luck for the future!

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hiya, my sister died six weeks ago. Although i miss her a great deal, im also happy for her, as i know that this is what she wanted. The way that i look at it is that although she is gone and i will never see her again, i know that she is finally at peace with herself and is finally away from all of the torment and pain that she was suffering whilst she was alive. I think that you should just remember the googd times whilst they were alive. I hope you stop hurting soon