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Message from: Joanne little - 4 Jan 02

Subject: My mum

My mum died six months. I have a sister but I cant talk to her and it is great that i have find this site with alot of young people going though want i am. My friends dont understand they try to but they cant. I find it hard trying to get on with my life but I cant I wish my mum was here.

Hello Joanne,
Thank you for writing in with your thoughts, what you are going through right now is very hard and as you say its difficult to find people to talk to, so its good that you have felt able to share your thoughts here. Have you told your sister about the site? I am wondering whether she may also like to see what other people have written, it may help you to talk to one another about your feelings. If your friends haven't experienced what you have gone through then it will be hard for them to understand, but if as you say they try, then this is the first step and maybe you could help them to help you by talking to a close friend about your feelings and thoughts in this time. Also you might find that writing down these thoughts and feelings will help you to see how things change over time. Your feelings for your mum will always be there, but with time you will find a way to live your life again. I hope that you continue to get use out of this site and feel free to contact us again.
Best wishes.

Thanks for the message and no my sister does not know about the site

Subject: sorry

I feel kind of the way that you do. thank god that there is someone to talk to and understands the way, that i and everybody can talk to

Subject:i know how u feel

im only 13 and lost my mum 1 month and 33 days ago, but hey whose counting,
im never scared anymore and i find it harder to interact with people, i thought about killing myself but i thought that i couldnt leave my family in that sort of state... i just dont know what to do anymore, im just waiting, waiting to die...

Subject: Sorry

I am sorry to hear that your mum die. And i am sorry that your sister doesn't seem to under stand you. i also enjoy using this site as i want to talk sometimes about my brothers death 11 yrs ago but nobody ever answers my message .

Subject: my mummy

I know how you feel i lost my mum with lung cancer 5 weeks ago i lost my mum my best friend and my hero .

Its hard to accpted that someone so speaciel has died but time will tell when u can go on with your life even though you cant change what happned you can think of the memories you had DONT BOTTLE UP YOUR FEELINGS INSIDE TELL SOMEONE HOW YOU FEEL A TEACHER A AUNT A COUNCILER EVEN CHILDLINE CAN HELP TALK TO SOMEONE NOW BEFORE THE PAIN GETS WORSE .

ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE YOUR MUM IS A WOUNDERFUL PERSON JUST LIKE MINES XXXXX