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Message from: Chelsea, 11 Jul 06

Subject: i didnt get to say goodbye

My friend died a couple days ago. his name was micah and he was helping this man get a tree branch out of the tree and it fell and hit him on the head. his best friend micheal (mike-mike) was there when it happened and micah said call the police i'm hurt real bad. he had to be life lighted to savannah ga. his mom didnt even get to say goodbye because when she got there he had already died. the doctors said he broke his neck and spinal cord. i was in the mountains and i didnt even get a chance 2 say goodbye 2 him and the thing is after i got home i had a dream about him in the dream he asked me why wasnt i there 2 help him and then i woke up feeling really sad.

Reply from: Sal
Subject : I feel the same
I know your post is two years old now but i feel the same as you.
i lost my grandad 7 years ago and it was such a shock to me, he went to doctors complaining of a chest infection and got taken into hospital, he died the very next day.
I never got to tell him how much i loved him or anything as non of us knew he was going to die.
I also lost my nanna last year right in the middle of my a-levels and i found that really hard to cope with, it was my 18th in the aug 2007 and she should have been there.
In the september i went away to university and felt so alone and had no one to talk to about it.
I now have so many issues in my life so my advice to anyone would be talk about your problems with someone, dont bottle them up.
If anyone needs to talk it would be nice to hear from you and people in the same situation.
Sally xx

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