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Message from: Dee, 27 Jun 06

Subject: grandad

hi my grandad has just died and i really miss him he died from lung cancer and i feel really upset iv turned to self harm he died on 18th june o6 and to make it even worse it was farthers day and my birthday so im so upset i cant sleep at night

has any1 got any advice for me plz
from d

Subject: Grandad

hi there i know what you going through my grandad died in january its so hard but it gets easier i really miss him i visit his resting place alot which helps im here to help you through this your not alone.

Subject: hey

hey my grandad died of lung cancer too. 7th of june 06. i cant really help with much advice as im not coping very well either all i know is try n stop the self harm as i turned to that when i lost my nan in 2000. it didnt help me at all even though it made me feel better at the time. i know its hard for you, its hard for me too. but keep strong and ive had advice from a councillor to make a memory book about my grandad so maybe you could do the same. i know its helping me alot, even though it makes me cry sometimes when im adding pieces. but i know that when i get upset and miss him i can always look at the memory book as im sometimes scared that i will forget him, i will never forget him though as he was the greatest man i ever knew. if you ever want to chat im always here. xxx nicki

Subject: (no subject)

Hey! I know how you feel casue on March 1st 2004 my granddad died of lung cancer. I find it really hard sometimes because I miss him so much. You really need to talk to someone. It could be a teacher, a friend or a family member. Don't bottle it up inside you because it will eat away at you. You could write a letter to him explaining all of this to him about how you feel, it could help. Remember your Granddad loved you and he wouldn't want to see you like this. Try to do something different when you wnat to self harm like go for a walk whenever you get to urge to harm yourself or ride your bike.

Subject: grandad

my grandad died of a brain tumour a year ago and the only way im coping is to think of the happy times and not to look at many pictures of him and try to talk about it but i find it very very HARD and it still makes me feel a litle bit angry but not as much. What would your grandad think of you if you were hurting your self.