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Message from: Sarah, 16 Jun 06

Subject: My nan

My nan died a month ago and i feel worse eveyday. My mates all think im over it. Has anone else ever been in this situation before

Subject: (no subject)

i know how you feel about losing your nan coz i lost my grandad and it still hurts keep your chin up

Subject: MISS U EVERY DAY NAN XXXXXXXXXX R.I.P

HIYA MY NAN DIED ABOUT 3 YEARS AGAO I RELIY MISSS HER SO MUCH I DONT STOP THNKING ABOUT HER I RELIY DONT

Subject: I know what its like

My nan has been dead for over a month and I still miss her and think about her every day, my family think I am over it but I'm not, I'm just very good at hiding things from everyone. All I can say to you is what I say to myself and that is it will get easier as time goes by and if it doesn't then talk to someone, could be your friends, family or a professional. If you are aged 13-19 talk to connexions, they are completely confidentual and you can remain annonymous. Take care xxx

Subject: i no wot u r feeling

hi my nan died 3 years ago i just whant her back. c as i am saying about how i feel i juat wanna cre coz i ant got any nans or gangag. i hope u well be ok and i am so sorry about ur los off ur nan and i hope ur famaliy r going to be ok soon. it dus tak time to get throe it but u well 1 day that is wot my dad says to me. i thank he just says it to make me feel better but it dont luv him anyway. keep ur chan up luv i hope to her from u every soon. i am so so so sorry about ur los luv ya lots XXXXXXXXXXXX

Subject: Dad, mum, Brother,Sister & Nan dying :o(

I'm new on here and I have read so many messages about everyone losing someone special to them. Losing someone at any age at any time of your life is hard, you feel that the world has ended and you wonder how on earth your going to find the strength to carry on without them..... i don't know how we do sometimes but we do, and I believe (my personal feeling) that it's our loved ones that have passed away that give us the strength to carry on, they want us to live life to the full and make something of ourselves and remember them each day.
In a time period of 7 years I have lost my sister (hrs old) my brother (7yrs) my Mummy (38yrs) and my Daddy (44) and now sadly my 81 yr old Nan who has been my rock when my parents died is dying of lung cancer. I went to see her at the weekend and it broke my heart seeing the lady that had always been there happy, laughing and making a cup of tea every five mins (or so it seemed) to now a frail, lifeless and confused, i feel my world is falling apart around me, I cry every min of the day and night wondering why i'm still here and the are not. But I have to carry on because they would want me to. I understand everybody pain here, we're all hurting differently but we've all lost someone we love.
Thinking of you all, and I i wish you all well.

Subject: i dont feel gd

i feel so bad coz i relliy wont my nan back so bad ley iff u wanna talk u can email me on thas email it is (Sorry Katie, but for safety & confidentiality reasons we don't publish any personal contact details for people, but you can still use the message board to communicate. Hope you understand this RD4U)

Subject: so sorry

first of all i want 2 say iam so sorry for all your loses i dont know how you cope i know what you are going through cause i lost my mum a few mounths ago from lung cancer its a treeible thing iam thinking about you and so would the rest of your fanily in heaven they will be proud of hunnie stay in touch gemma xxxx

Subject: (no subject)

My nan is dying, the cancer has spread everywhere and she is still fighting, things that should have been happening months ago are only just affecting her. I am the proudest person on the planet of my nan, never let go, never forget, these people in our life are to be remembered. Instead of sadness feel proud, instead of despair feel hope. We can only hope to one day be that kind of person. NEVER FORGET.