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Message from: Zara, 29 May 06

Subject: My Dad

My dad died a year ago on 20th May i thought i had got through it but it just seems to be getting harder and harder! is there anyone that could give me a bit of advice on how to get myself through this?

Reply from: jess

Subject: death

my dad died nearly 2 years ago and wen it gets to his birthday i find it hard but i always tel some 1 out of my family how i fell and they help you should try it

Reply from: Tasha

Subject: losing a dad

my dad was like my best friend (even closer then my mum).he died of a heart atack when i was 8.i sore him a month before he died and i cant remember what we did.mum didnt let me go to his funaral because she thought it would be too hard for me to take as i was only 7.i remember seeing his body in his cofin though,i kissed him on the head and i remember him being cold, it felt strange.now i have grown up im fifteen (16 this year) i find it hard to cope with because now im feel more of the pain than i did when i lost him it seems to get harder every day.ill admit i still cry but when i miss him tramendusly i go into my bedroom shut the door and have time to my self to talk to my dad.i have a photo album he gave me of mainly him and me and thats what i look at and i try to remember alll the good times as remembering the bad times is hard and i know thats not what my dad would have wanted.
Suggestion: maybe you could create a book with photo's of him in and do the same.i know this mite sound weiod but when i do it i can almost feel he's in the room with me and its not scary.

Reply from: Sara

Subject: dad

Yea i no how all ya feel my dad died 6 years ago he had a motor bike accident and u just feel so alone and u duno how 2 cope? I just cant stop thinkin bout it and i get reali violent wen i do.
i have lots of pics of him 2 wb wen eva u can luv Sara xx

Reply from: mollyann

Subject: i am feeling sorry for u

hi i am mollyann i am sorry for wat has hapend to u in the past. i lost my mum 2weeks ago and i am not feeling so good. i just want u to no that i am luking out for u and i am so so sorry for your los
love mollyann
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