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Message from: jess, 22 May 06

Subject: death

My dada nearly 3 years ago know and i really miss him it will be his bday in two weeks and i aint looking forward to it .it will make me cry and i don't want to cry be coz i want peaple know i am brave.

Reply from: Beckie

Subject: Crying

i just want you to know that crying isn't a sign of weakness and its good to cry rather than bottle everything up. Crying helps you to release all the anger, sadness, grief etc etc. I used to bottle things up and my feelings about my mum but then i realised that it wasn't doing me any good so now whenever i feel like crying i do. Crying doesn't mean your not brave because you are and don't let anyone else tell you different, and although i don't know your dad i am sure he would be very proud of you.
love Beckie xXx

Reply from: Tasha

Subject: crying

just because you cry doesnt mean your not strong.i cry all the time because i lost my dad but that doesnt mean im weak,i know im strong on the inside because if i wasnt i would have killed my self but crying is on the outside and everybody does it sometimes even those guys who think their hard trust me they do ive seen
i promice everyone crys

Reply from: mollyann

Subject: sorry for yor lost

hi i am mollyann iam sorry for yor los. i lost my mum 2 weeks ago and it is her birthday in october and i am not loking forwud to it ever wen it gets to the day i am going to be strong but if u want to let ti out u can.
love mollyann
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Reply from: tina

Subject: crying

i lost my dad 16 year ago and my mum a year ago last week. Sometimes I feel i am all alone and only have myself for back up which means i too cry alot... dont ever thing you are weak and cant cope its so good to cry i rthink its 10 times worse to bottle up all your emotions that really doesnt help. I am sorry for as i know how it feels birthday, xmas's etc.. are always hard in fact it a year today since my mums funeral which makes me think alot today. I dont know about anyone else but i do believe in an after life i surpose its a way of hanging on to them who know?? chin up xxxxxand dont be afraid or ashamed to cry x

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