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Message from: rachel, 22 May 06

Subject: mum died

I fonud it really hard to read all the stories about people that had lost their mothers to cancer. My mum died when i was 14 in feb 1995, i dont think i grieved for years i never believed she would die. I have many sad days those moments when a mum should be there, my wedding day, being able to see my children, just poping in for a cuppa tea! i have many good times but will never lose the urge for her to be here.

Subject: your mum

i feel just the same. its a week away til it would've been mums 50th, and nearly 3 years since she died, i dealt quite well at first, then went downhill for about 6 months. over the last year i havent really thought of mum in a sad way at all. then about a month ago i started to feel weird and didnt know why. i couldnt sleep, was tired all the time, and really sensitive. it took me ages to realise i still have a lot of greiving to do. lost my step dad to cancer last year too, it takes much longer than people realise.

Subject: i miss my mum to

Hi rachel
I lost my mum almost two years ago now i miss her everday my mum died of kidney failure and a lot of other things she was also my best friend any way write back if you like take care staci