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Message from: (anon), 15 May 06

Subject: grandpa died
my granpa died last november - its only now im able to talk about it. Our family was very close to our granparents i could tell my granpa everythin, then his cancer (he had been battling cancer for 8 years, it just didnt want to go away!) got worst and he became so ill, before he did he looked so weak and helpless - i wish i could have cured him then - i miss u granpa and i never got to say goodbye!

Subject: (anon)

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I can't think of anything to say really exept even though you never got to say goodbye to him you can write a letter to him and stick it by his grave or if he was cremated burn the letter you write so he can then receive it that way.

My nanna died a couple of weeks ago, it hasn't hit me yet but she died instantly and she didn't suffer, I'm sure if everyone in the world had the powers to cure the poeple dying then they would do it but unfortunately the only powers some people have is medicine and it gets to a point where nothing can be done and people suffer.
Once again, I am very sorry for your loss.
xx

Subject: i lost my grandad 2

i lost my grandad 2. but the best thing 2 do m8, is hold ur head high and keep a pic in ur wallet that way when ur feeln down u can talk to the foto. u may think uve gone mad but i really helps.

Subject : grandpa
i feel ure grief i lost my great gradad yesterday and im still in denial. i cant believe its happened. the best thing to do is call their telephone
no.08088081677 and speak 2 someone. dont be scared 2 let it all out because they arnt gonna take the mik outa u they just wanna help. I called their no. because i couldnt stop cryin and i had 2 cum ome from skewl. the people on the other end of the line are nice and friendly and in the end the'll help u get ova it. I did that cuz i didnt want to talk to anyone face to face cuz i new i would burst out cryin and i didnt want to.
oxoxo Good luck, and dont be afraid to cry.oxoxo

(i'm only 12 and im still struglin 2 get over it because it is the first time anyone has died in my family even though he was my great grandad. so if anyone has any advice 4 me i wud appriciate it)