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Message from: gemma, 15 May 06

Subject: my dad
my dad died 9 months ago. his death was very sudden and wasn't expected. at the moment i feel i have to block all my feelings about my dad because they are to hard to deal with. i don't know what to do to make the hurt go away.

Subject: lost my dad too

Hi Gemma,

I lost my dad suddenly 2 months ago and am struggling to cope with the pain. But i do know that no matter how painful it is you need to deal with it and not shut it out. Try and focus on all the good times you spent with your dad and remeber that he will never really go, he is there watching over you and protecting you and he would want you to be happy and continue your life without being in pain. He will live on through you, you just cant see him in a physical sense. Sending you hugs xxx

Subject: dad

hi gemma,
my dad died 15 mounths to day.I am really missnig him cos everyone is talking about thier dad and i am just sittin in the conner wishin that i had a dad.Take care of your self,
from rach

Subject: (no subject)

hi louise thanks for your reply sorry to hear about your dad. what you said to me has been really useful. I think i knew what i needed to do before its just that i find it to hard to do it. I just miss my dad so much its so hard not having him here.once again thank you for what you said and I hope to hear from you again soon. big hugs xxx

Subject: (no subject)

hi rach, thank you for your reply. sorry to hear about your dad. I know exactly how you feel. everyone else talks about their dad and i just feel left out all the time. atleast i know that im not the only who feels that way. hope to hear from you again soon. big hugs xxx

Subject: dads

hi there,
i also lost my dad in april 2005,
yes a year ago,the past year has gone so quick and yet i still want him back,he like your died very quickly and suddenly,not expected.im not going to say that time is a great healer coz its not and im srtruggling with life but what i advise you all is to talk about your problems and worrys,with friends,teachers or docter,please dont bottle things up.
you all take care
kate

Subject: family

i loss my dad nearly 3 years ago he died on bonfire night. i remember when the ambulance came to take him to hospical and my mum said i couldent go be coz he was really ill. i wished that i had said i loved him or something but i couldent i was in shock and i never saw him again. now i know i can speak to him any time by praying or just speaking to him coz i know he is always with me. rite bk jess