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Message from: bbz, 15 May 06

Subject: scared
my freind told me last nite that she is goin 2 kill herself and asked me to help and support her until she does take an over dose. my brother died 7 months ago he killed himself and i am still hurting from that. my freind has tried killing herself during easter but it never worked, which i am glad. i dont no wat to do to help her or support her becouse i am scared, plz can sum 1 help me or tell me what to do. she told me to keep it a secret but i cant, what shall i do?? plz help.

Reply from: Sammie

Subject: bbz - scared

All I can say to you in order to help your friend is to tell someone, you may feel bad after you have told someone but in the end you was thinking of her and you was trying to keep her alive.
I had problems with the whole suicide type of thing, I have tried to kill myself many times before and if it wasn't for my friends telling someone at school I wouldn't be here, and I wouldn't have got the help I am getting now.
When they told they felt bad and I felt angry but once I got the help I forgave them, so the best thing I can say to you it tell someone, it may save your friends life!!

I am sorry to hear about your loss too, maybe you could use your loss to persuade your friend not to kill herself, you should tell her how much you care about her and what it would do to you and other people if she commited suicide.

Take Care and I hope this helps :0)

Reply from: jess

Subject: dont worry

you have always got to keep positive im sure your friend will be ok. dont think down think up. rite bk jess

Reply from: charlotte
Subject: her friend
hiya my boy firend try to kill him self lots of time it kills me to no that he dont wont to live no more so i try and just be here 4 him and say that i love him and try to get him to stop but i no it hard 4 you cuz of your borther so just try and be happy and stay with her make her feel wontdi and happyer x charlotte
Reply from: kayleigh
Subject : my dad
hi gemma my dad died 5 weeks ago aswell i know how your feeling he would want u to be happy
love from kayleigh
take care
Reply from: Lorna
Subject : advice
my friend killed himself 2 months ago. it's hard! i know you're friend really wants you to keep it seceret but when i tried to do that i called childline and they really helped! my m8 also called them for me and they really do help. give it a go it's really helpfull! i hope this helps

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