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message no. 1072
| Message from: candi,
21 Apr 06 |
| Subject: any ideas?
i still have his sweatshirt..
out of all my 4 friends that i have lost in 2 years, this is the
only situation like this i have been in. i have a sweatshirt of
my friend who passed recently, and im clueless waht to do with
it. is it okay to keep it? should i wear it? the second day after
the accident, i foudn it, and i held it. i slept with it on top
of me when i fianly got to sleep because i coudlt take the pain
and it helped me feel close to my freind. i wanted to ask his
parents at the funeral about it, but it was a catholic setting
and we didn't go up to the closed casket. anyone willing to help
me get through this wiht sugestions, please help. thanks.
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Reply from: vicky, 17 May 06
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Subject: replie to message
hey huni
if i were you i would keep it as a reminder of him/her in a special
place. i wouldnt wear it around untill people have had a chance
to grieve properly, because it mite upset them. but if you talk
to his/her parents and say that u have it or even talk to them
about how u feel it mite help.
i dunno thats onli a suggestion coz ive never had nethin like
that happen to me before.
but i wish u luck hun and hope that u can stay strong.
xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Reply from: lisa
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Subject: the sweatshirt
why not make the sweatshirt into a cushion cover and put it on your bed that way you will be able to cuddle up to it and still feel close to your friend hope this helps x
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| Reply from: Habiba jahan |
Subject : death.
I know how you feel. my 3 grandads died and it hurt. its a really long story. but, just try and remember the good times and then see how u feel. good luck!!
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| Reply from: no name |
Subject: wat to do about you sweatshirt
if i was you i would keep it and like make a mini memory area or something like that and put the sweatshirt in the middle
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