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Message from: abi, 21 Apr 06

Subject: nanny

i lost my cousin on 4th january 2005 age 16 then my nanny on 1st january 2006 age 56 then if that wasnt bad enough i then lost my great antie on 13th march. i miss them all so much and dont know how to cope. i guess its just life but its not right. im only 15 and my school told me to get over it and stop trying to get out of school i havent had time to greave. what do i do.

Subject: (no subject)

When my Mum died (just over a year ago) i had to tell my school what was happening because i needed time out of lessons and stuff. Although my school, like yours, told me to get on with it, as they said 'its life'. but that's not right, and you have been through alot with three special people that you've lost. Your school shouldn't have said that and you should do something about it.
Talking to people about whats happened will help, especially friends or teachers that you get on well with. Don't let this ruin your grades and get behind with work though. I'm 15 too, and have just under a year until i leave, i've messed it all up though. so get help by talking to someone about this all, and it doesn't seem like it right now but things will get a little lighter if you talk to people close to you.xx

Subject: i know how you are feeling at the moment!

i know how you are feeling at the moment abi! i am going through the same thing huni! you do know you can talk to me! i am your sister! im always going to be there for you huni! we are all going through a really bad patch at the mo! if you wanna talk you know where i am ok! love ya loads x x x x