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Message from: Ann Salter - 28 Jun 01

Subject: Welcome to our new website

Welcome to our new website! It was designed by a group of young people from the Greater Manchester area, we hope you like what you see. The site will be updated regularly, and we would love you to contribute, whether by sharing your experiences, giving us your ideas, or simply telling us what you think. So why not send us a message now!

Reply from: vikki

Subject: my grandad died

hi i am vikki and i am new here my granddad died july the 9th 2004 and this is the first christmas i have not had him here wit me! i dont like it at all i HATE IT ! wit a passion i wish that i could be wit him ,but at the same time i think to myself what will that do for me i will be died i just wish and hope that my granddad would give me a sign and tell me that everything will be alright i just wish he could be here for christmas and to be wit my nana cuz i know it must be hard for her to be alown on christmas eve cuz its hard for me and its christmas eve right now i hate christmas sooo much i wish it wuz over so i dont have to deal wit it anymore !and i do feel sorry for all u other teens,moms,sisters,dads.grandmothers,and granddad with lots of love ~*~vikki~*~

Reply from:laura

Subject:my brother died 2 :'(

hiya
kelsi i am writtin 2 u 2 let u no u can talk 2 me. my bro died as well on the 9th of august 2004.i was really close 2 my bro i dont no what 2 do with my life no more cya bye xxx write back please xxx

Reply from:adele

Subject:dad

hy there you got your whole life ahead of you and im sure your dad dosent want you to be sad n i garantee you he is watching i know you have tried all theis horrible things n they havent workd dose that not tell you somthing someone wants you here everyone loses somone just trie not to lose yourself i realy do hope your ok and you will get stronger xadelex

Reply from:Abbie

Subject: My mum was everything to me

hey i no how u feel. i lost my mum 2 suicide and no ne understand, not friends or boyfriends, they can b sympathetics but they neva understand. writing things down can b theraputic. just let it out. all of us on this website are her 4 u. x abz x

Reply from: Tina

Subject: My mum died about 1 month ago

I miss my mum a lot but it is too late. She is not here with me anymore. She was only 62 when she died. I do not know how to cope with. I cry everyday when no one notice. I do not want to show in front of people. I wish I can have my mum back. I love her dearly. I feel guilty that I did not spend enough time with her near the time that she died. I do not know what to do now.

Reply from:brian

Subject:your not alone

I know You are in pain and it hurts because i have lost 2 of my grandads and a great grandad. Maybe you should get a pet? Remember dont bottle up your feelings

Reply from:JIM

Subject:I FEEL YOUR PAIN 2

MY BROTHER DIED ON SEPT. 13 05
IT HURT EVERY DAY BUT YOU STAY STRONG...THAT`S WHAT HELPS...TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF ,JIM

Reply from: scott

Subject: mum

i lost my mum 23rd oct 2005 to breast cancer, she fought it for a year and we thought it'd gone, then just came back and 2 weeks later she passed away, i miss her soooooooo much, and hopefully will be with her again one day.

Reply from:fjdkaskfd

Subject: depression

don't worry i went through the exact same thing about a year ago my mom decided to get a syciotrist but i figured my way out by liying and they believed me. about a week after my friends came to me and talked to me about it. and how sad they would be if i decided to end my life, they said they were there for me, that helped me alot so much i decided not to end my life and that people out there really do care about u. nomatter were u are someone is always watching and caring for u. (especially GOD) my friends and my mom and my family are there for me now and i realize that ending my life is not the answer and there is help out there. u just gotta ask and then reach out and take it it took me awhile to understand that , and now that i do, im litarally the happiest person in the world! i hope this helps u

all my love : fjdfhj

Reply from: Georgie

Subject:My Dad

hey ya, my dad died six years ago in March. He died of lung cancer and I was only 9 at the time, it was a huge shock but the pain does become easier as the time goes by. It will be hard but all i can say is stay strong for your family and talk about it. The worst thing you can do is bottled your grieve up. Let it all out and cry, crying is the most important thing you can do. Take care xxx

Reply from:dani

Subject: I miss her!!

hi people, i am 16 and been living with my grandma who has been my mum as well since i was 3months old cuz my real mum left me, anyway my mum (grandma) passed away on 2nd january 2006! i am doin my GCSE's this year, my uncle couldn't go to the funeral cuz he was rushed into hospital and my other uncle (who's birthday mum died on) was also rushed into hospital but came out just in time for the funeral...i don't know what to do, i don't think i can cope with everythin!! i know how ya feel ppl!!

Reply from:ashley

Subject:my mum died too!

hi there my mumdied last year as well and she was young, she was in her 30's. She died of lung failour and an asema attack, i am now only 14 and it has been very very very hard for me this year.:(

Reply from:barbara

Subject:your mum dieing

i am so sooooooooooooory u c ma mama died too oh it was so shocking she died on a flight to babrbedos it was simply cryable she died when i was only 11 so dont be happy coz everything gonna be ok

Reply from: zoey

Subject: this is for you
heya My Name Is Zoey Well I Naw Esacailly What Your Going Through
Feeling Like That Makes You Feel Worse Your Dad Would Want You To Feel Happy Not Sad Put a Picture Of Him In Ur Room And Smile To Him Every Day When You Wake Up He Would Like That Look After Yourself Zoey xoxox

Reply from: chris

Subject: dad

its horrible to lose your dad ive been through it aswell but i really cant tell you what to do to help because everyones different

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